In this post “me too” world it is challenging for a man to step into his masculine and be in his unapologetic power, while still holding space for the feminine, supporting her and yet staying true to himself. 

Men are not encouraged to talk about what’s working for them between the sheets or not…

They are shamed into thinking something is wrong with them and are expected to figure it out on their own.

This conditioning goes deep and frequently keeps men stuck in their heads and trying to keep their partners “happy” while losing themselves in the process.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

It’s time to step into your masculine, your power and your truth.


~ for men

…is my Signature Sexy-Back Approach that I bring into your transformational journey.

Designed to reconnect you to your body through somatic coaching, while releasing shame, cultivating deep trust in yourself, allowing you to get out of your head and into your body, so you may step into your unapologetic power and feel empowered in your masculinity.

Want to learn more? Book a free call with me below.

Want to know a little secret??

HOW you show up in your body…is HOW you show up in your LIFE!

It is ALL connected.

Because your SEXY is your SUPERPOWER.


Your connection to your BODY is your SUPERPOWER.

Our bodies and sexuality have been shamed, condemned, pushed down, and put away. It has been built up with fear, taught as scary, wrong and then, you are meant to go figure it out on your own.

If you want to reclaim all of you and step fully into your power without blocks, limiting beliefs and conditioning holding you back, reconnecting to your body and to your sexuality is the way through.

It is the portal to your POWER.

When you connect to your body you become empowered in your masculinity and grounded in your pleasure.

This is for you if you desire to…

Cultivate ejaculatory control and last longer

Become the best lover you can be

Have multiple orgasms without losing your erection

Recognize the signs of your partners desire

Feel empowered in your masculinity

Get out of your head and connect to your body and your pleasure

Learn how to move and expand sensual energy and pleasure throughout your entire body

Heal heartbreak and shame including ED, porn addiction and other sexual challenges

Increase your sexual strength no matter your age

Coaching is a partnership where we both co-create to get you to your desires.

Your journey is uniquely yours and I will meet you wherever you are at to empower you to…


There’s no judgement as to where you are at in your journey.

Know that you’re not broken, there is nothing “wrong” with you, and there’s nothing to fix. Everything I have described is already available to you, we are simply going to excavate and unleash it!

It is all welcome.

My coaching is unique in that we work on both YOUR BODY & YOUR MIND simultaneously to uncover unconscious patterns that may be holding you back that you don’t even know about that are holding you back from achieving your desires in your life!


Hi I’m Kim!

I’m a certified trauma-informed, Sex, Love, Relationship & Tantra Teacher, Speaker and Coach for singles and couples. As well as a Bestselling Author, a graduate of Layla Martin’s Institute of Integrated Tantric Sexuality, and founder of Get Your Sexy Back. 

I specialize in Tantra, Sexuality and Relationship Transformation, giving you the tools to unleash your innate confidence and unlock profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, and intimacy with yourself – and in your relationships! 

I use a multifaceted approach in all my programs and private coaching incorporating nervous system regulation, with sacred sexuality, pleasure and personal empowerment.

My work combines elements inspired by Classical & Neo-Tantra, Taoism, Emotional Healing, Somatic Experiencing, Breathwork, Imago Relationship Therapy, Gestalt Therapy, Energetic Guided Meditation, Reiki, Human Design and more.

Today I combine all these skills and training plus 26+ years of entrepreneurship and 13+ years of coaching experience to help singles and couples explore and break through what is holding them back from experiencing the lives they desire.

By creating deep trust and safety in your body and mind, I’ll show you how to RECONNECT to your body, ACTIVATE your turn-on, HEAL heartbreak & shame, RECLAIM your true SEXY self so that you can fully step into your UNAPOLOGETIC POWER!

Private Coaching Includes

  • 6-month Private Coaching Container where you reclaim YOU, reconnect to your body, to your sexuality and remember WHO YOU ARE so you can step into your full unapologetic POWER.
  • 60 minute coaching sessions 3x a month. Your weekly calls are where you bring your questions and challenges you have, or just show up and let me guide you towards your desires.
  • Unlimited messaging support in-between sessions. This is where the real work happens. You’ll try a new thing, start a convo with your partner or something will activate your body and shit will hit the fan…I’ll be ready to help you process and integrate whatever it is. Change only happens in action, while you are living your life…not only on our calls. Plus, you’ll also be kicking ass, having some quantum level shifts and needing a place to celebrate and digest all of the goodness happening in your life…I can’t wait for those messages too!
  • Me supporting and partnering with you, taking a stand for your desires.  I’ll help you take places in your life where things could be better or you desire something else and I’ll teach you the tools it takes to see deep lasting change.
  • With Private Coaching you have my full attention to uncover and release what is in your way and holding you back while cultivating epic safety and trust within you and your body. Private coaching is where we can fine tune and go way deeper than we can in group programs collapsing your timeline exponentially.
  • I offer A LOT of accountability and yet I know first-hand how challenging it can feel when we are stuck in the muck. Most of the time we are too close and too caught up in what is going on in our day-to-day. My job as your coach is to help you balance and create safety in your nervous system at the same time, so you can get unstuck and move into thriving.
  • Made for you practices, rituals, embodiment tools, meditations, visualizations, breath-work, inner child healing, chakra and energy work and intuitive playtime {aka fun homework} to allow you to get to where you want to go faster! You also have the option to receive the recordings of the practices and meditations we do, so you can continue to deepen your practice in between sessions.
  • 100% judgement free container filled with safety & love. I’ve done the work…I continue to daily…I know and I have a ton of experience to hold you through it all.

Your Investment

$2800 for 4 months of Private Coaching

or $800/month

Extended Payment Plans are available

How do I get started??

Book your free call with Kim and let’s see if it feels aligned!



If you have tried talk therapy in the past and have not gotten anywhere close to where you’d like to be, coaching may be what you are looking for.

I personally tried so much talk therapy in my life and nothing got me anywhere close to where coaching and embodiment work has gotten me.

Coaching is right for you if you are ready to embody change and you are willing to do the work.  By work I mean you are ready to explore your thoughts, beliefs and conditioning. You are ready to go deep, to be witnessed and to heal.

When we start to do our healing work using somatic {body based} tools and practices I find that…

One: we get to the root of what is holding us back so much faster. 

And Two: we get to heal and release what we’ve been carrying in a super gentle nourishing way, giving us real embodied lasting results.


Each session we will start with what is going on, what’s working, what’s not, exploring all of that and getting curious about what you need to achieve your desires.

Then we will go into whatever will help you remove the obstacles that are holding you back.

My coaching is made up of powerful somatic tools to clear any unconscious limiting beliefs around your body, your sexsuality, while creating safety in your body and activating your TURN-ON.

We will also do deep work around any childhood wounding, past heartbreaks and conditioning so you can reconnect to who you are, build deep intimacy, trust and self-love with yourself, heal your body, your mind and your soul…and transform your life, so you can use it all as your superpower.

I will add in a meditation, a practice, breathwork, or a tool to build connection to your body, while releasing powerful blocks of judgement, guilt, shame and limiting beliefs.

Along with nourishing embodiment practices to cut through the “story”, decrease your stress levels, balance your hormones, ignite your turn-on, embrace your feminine power and enhance your overall turn-on!

We can also explore healing relationships with others and yourself, emotional empowerment, exploring unconscious networks, gaining clarity around situations, creating safety & boundaries, integrating and healing, dearmoring, rewriting your sexual story, releasing pain or numbness, even orgasmic & pleasure reclamation and mastery.

It’s up to what you want to work on…always a collaboration.

Basically taking your power back, and taking care of your nervous system, with lots of love, compassion and approval. 

There will be a combo of talk, exercises, tools and pleasure practices on our calls, but really it depends what you need that given week.

My weekly calls are where you’ll bring questions or challenges you have, or just show up and let me guide you towards your desires.


Great Question! I get this all the time…NO.

My clients are always fully dressed with on calls with me.

I also include recorded audio files of your practices that I guide you through, so you may continue to deepen your practice with yourself in-between sessions and beyond in the comfort of your own home.


Sacred Pleasure is part of Sacred Sexuality. It is a practice that is part of the ancient spiritual path known as tantra mixed with pleasure and embodiment.

Sacred Pleasure and Sacred Sexuality can be practiced solo or as a couple and it is a beautiful way to connect with your body, your sensuality and your pleasure, allowing you to access deeper levels of your feelings, sensations, and energies and ultimately go beyond WHO YOU ARE.

The Tantric path is acknowledging the depth of who you are and integrating yourself, so you are in greater alignment and remember who you REALLY are.

However, you aren’t focused on “fixing” yourself because there isn’t anything wrong with you.

Instead, we focus on:

🌹 Bringing in compassion and approval for everything you do and feel in the present and in the past

🌹 Loving and accepting all parts of yourself…even the parts you dislike or the parts that have been shamed, dismissed, or discouraged

🌹 Going deeper into understanding who you are and what you truly believe and feel

🌹 Reconnecting to your body, cultivating safety and trust along with everything else I mentioned above, so you are able to release deep shame and conditioning

🌹 Following your pleasure, using it to guide you AND to rewire the neuro pathways between your body and your brain

🌹 Allowing it all to come together to bring your body naturally into alignment.

The practices are incredible at helping release shame, trauma, and blockages around your body, your pleasure, being your authentic self, asking for what you want, your “enoughness” and your too muchness…and so much more.

These practices restore the transformative power of your sacred energy, your unapologetic energy and lead you to up-level how you feel pleasure, turn-on, joy and passion more intensely within your body.

Sacred Sexuality is for couples and singles who want holistic deeper sensual, embodied and energy practices to take them on an exquisite sacred sensual adventure where sensuality also becomes a door to the divine, creating a more intimate experience of the present moment.

My work combines elements inspired by Classial Tantra & Neo-Tantra, Taoism, Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS), Body-Mind Mapping, Dynamic Breathwork, Imago Relationship Therapy, Gestalt Therapy and Energetic Guided Meditation.

My coaching meets my clients where they are at and help them with their modern issues and desires around love, relationships, body, intimacy, confidence, connection, empowerment and sexuality on the whole.


You might want to!!!

But, NO. I will NOT make you do anything that does not feel aligned with your body.

However, I will hold you and witness you in your resistance to something you want to explore, to be more comfortable with.

And I will invite you to get curious about where you are stuck.

Give yourself permission to reclaim your body, your pleasure and your life while be supported in doing so.


My coaching is unique in that I support and partner with you, taking a stand for your desires, even when you can’t.

I am an advocate for your body’s wisdom and giving it a space to heal and rewire the pleasure pathways and build deep trust within yourself and your body.

I will hold you in super supportive space for you to go deep, heal trauma, heartbreak, unworthiness and conditioning that gets in your way.

I have experienced sexual trauma and abuse myself, so I know what it is like to do the deep work around trauma and our bodies.  I believe that once your body feels safe, you will experience REAL pleasure, joy, trust, intimacy and turn-on in all areas of your life.

And, that is why I offer complimentary consult calls so you may gain clarity on your desires, see if we are aligned while you experience what is like to work with me.

Absolutely no pressure…I don’t work that way…this call is really to see what is most aligned for both of us.


Your investment is $800/month for a 6 month coaching term.

I also offer extended payment plans and a little savings if you’d like to pay in full.


Book a free call to chat with me and let’s talk.

Absolutely zero pressure, I am not about that…I want you to be a full fucking yes and nothing less.

But it always starts with a free call to gain clarity on your desires, see if we are aligned and make sure it all feels great to you.