Have you forgotten the last time you and your partner had intimate, “replay over and over in your head for days on end” fun?

Do you keep missing each other and feel like the intimacy and connection you once had is dwindling by the day?

Do you not feel fully seen or understood and want to rekindle the love and connection between you?

Has your relationship gotten repetitive and a tad boring?

Are you in a new(er) relationship, and want to up-level what you already have and learn how to have an epic relationship and avoid the patterns you’ve fallen into in the past?

Would you like some clarity and support on what’s next, with real life communication tools and intimacy practices that you can implement easily into your lives?


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My Signature Sexy-Back approach is designed to reconnect you to your body and to each other through sacred sexuality, while creating deep intimacy, allowing you both to heal and cultivating real communication, so you awaken your passion, rediscover who you are as a couple, while honouring each other’s desires.

You want to feel powerful and fierce in all areas of your life, especially in your relationship…but right now you’re feeling stuck in a slump.

You want to wake up in the morning with a big smile on your face, ready to start your day, replaying over and over the epic intimacy and connection you had last night while you head off to work.

Then, when it’s time for a break, turn your phone over and see a saucy text from your partner that heats you up in all the right places…turning you on and giving you the confidence to sext them back till you get home tonight for round two.


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Do you and your partner need a little reset?

Have you fallen into a rut and want to spice things up again?

So many couples have miscommunication IN and OUT of the bedroom…and zero judgement if this is you. {it was me and my husband for many years too}

However, this is hurting our relationships and creating unnecessary anxiety about our future.

The things everyone “tells you to do”…

😐 Just plan more date nights

😐 Make time for each other

😐 Just have sex…you’ll get “in the mood”

😐 don’t worry, you’ll figure it out

😐 Get some sexy lingerie

😐 Never go to bed angry with each other

😐 You will settle in with time…

DON’T typically work. 

Or they do, but not for very long. 

Because they don’t get to the bottom of what is going on.

And to be honest, true intimacy, communication and connection hasn’t been modelled or taught for many of us in a way that feels good, cultivates safety and trust in our bodies and in our relationships.

And then there is sex.

And sex involves an even deeper understanding of ourselves, each other, our desires and our pleasure, with even more safety and present connection.

It’s time to have open conversations, while adding powerful tools and practices to create fun, loving, playful, connected, intimate experiences that feel great and allow us to feel fully safe, seen, loved and understood. 

From my experience, this is MUCH easier when we understand what we each need. When we can see how our inner child “is running the show”. When we cultivate safety in how we feel and this is guided by an experienced trauma aware practitioner. 

Shame, conditioning and fear of vulnerability quickly gets in the way of our deep intimate experiences. Even if we don’t think they are, our unconscious beliefs continue to show up in our day-to-day, and that includes in our relationships.

Talk about a huge turn-off…in and out of the bedroom. 

This isn’t something we can push or force through. 

It is time to go deeper, to come back together and learn how to connect and communicate in ways that feel good to your body.

It is actually IN relationship that some of our deepest needs and wounds can be healed.

It is time to stop settling, being okay with a “roommate” relationship, and simply going through the motions.

Instead, learn how to create deep intimacy, spice up your sex life, and open the lines of communication with your partner in a super fun and sexy way.

It is time for the reset and up-level that you and your partner so badly crave, so you can get out of the rut and live the life you love and have been dreaming of!

What if I told you that you could create deeper intimacy, open the lines of communication and experience INCREDIBLE pleasure with potent passion with your partner no matter how long it’s been?

No matter what has come in-between the two of you?

A relationship that is EVEN better than it’s ever been?

Well, you absolutely can!

This is for couples who want to reconnect to their body, to their sexuality, to their pleasure and to each other! 

You want to learn how to ask for what you want in an embodied way, that gets you out of your head and feels good to you both!

This is for couples who one or both, shutdown when conflict arises and want to learn new way to heal and come together.

This is for couples who have lost their spark and want to feel connected, confident and SEXY again!

This is for couples who struggle to communicate and share without arguing, what they want from the relationship and from each other. 

This is for couples who are not feeling very seen or understood and desire to have their needs met in a loving, compassionate way.

This is for couples who have been drifting apart, feeling resentment or frustration and desire to feel in tune again.  

This is also for couples who LOVE their relationship but want it to be EVEN better, deeper, more nourishing, with more presence.

My private coaching for couples is for you.

If you desire to up-level your already amazing relationship, with Tantra and Sacred Sexuality, my private coaching for couples is ALSO for you. 

There is no such thing as a relationship “being too far gone”.

There is no such thing as “being as good as it gets”. 

And there is no such thing as “starting too soon”. 

I work with couples in their 20th year of relationship. I work couples who have just moved in together, as well as couples who are still dating and living in separate locations.

In all styles of relationships and all genders.

What works for one relationship, won’t always work for another.

That’s why my coaching includes custom tailored sessions and support for your unique relationship.

Book a free Couples Clarity Call with me here to learn more


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RECLAIM your love and cultivate a stronger foundation for your relationship, where you both feel supported and seen and you both receive the intimacy and connection you desire.

RECONNECT to your body, to your sexuality {fully optional}, to your pleasure and to your partner. Learn how to ask for what you want in an embodied way that creates space for all of you and all of your partner.

REMEMBER who you are both are individually, turn-on, awaken your passion and rediscover who you are as a couple, without conditioning holding your back, while honouring each other’s desires.

This is for couples who want to reclaim their intimacy, connection and communication, while creating a stronger foundation for themselves AND for their relationship, where they both feel supported, seen and loved.

This is for new couples and this is for seasoned couples.

This is for couples who are madly in love and for couples who aren’t sure if it’s going to last.

It is all welcome.

Allow YOU and YOUR relationship to be supported.

“Working with Kim was eye opening and a relationship transforming experience. 

Spending just one weekend with her, immediately improved our communication, our physical and our emotional intimacy.

If you are thinking of hiring her, DO IT NOW.”

Amanda Brown ~ Certified Clinical Trauma & Self-Mastery Coach for Women

Welcome to Private Coaching for Couples

I help couples rewrite their story, release shame, build that deeper intimacy their looking for and more, all while creating an epic sexual relationship!

I meet you and your partner wherever you are at.

If you desire to up-level your already passionate relationship or if you are realizing that things have been feeling little a more distant than you’d like recently…it is all welcome.

We all bring our past conditioning, wounds and heartbreak with us into our relationships.

In the beginning we can usually bypass most of it…flying high on new love. But as our relationship grows and evolves, a lot of our these wounds show up over and over again. Creating pain, distance and frustration.

And that is okay. Why?

Because it is IN our relationships where we can truly heal and integrate our heartbreak and needs that were never met.

It is IN relationship where we can learn how to fully be seen, open up to true intimacy and allow ourselves to be truly held.

My couples coaching is unique in that it includes coaching sessions on the unit as a couple, but also includes individual private support for both parties involved.

You can see the private coaching pages on this website for men and for women for more info on what the solo private support can include. 

And of course, your sessions are tailored to you and your relationship.

So if you need more tantra we do more tantra…or if you need more communication, safety or inner child healing we work on that.

Your sessions are always tailored to what you need in that given moment with your long term desires as a couple in mind.

That’s the beauty of private coaching. 

If you and your partner desire a little more “us” time. If you feel like keep missing each other and feel like the intimacy and connection is not happening as often as you like.

If it is it putting a strain on your relationship…

I want you to know, that you are not alone.

My relationship used to be like this. 

It got to the point that my husband and I {now going on 23 years} would allow months and months to go by without spending real connected time together. 

When we finally had some downtime, it felt awkward, we were exhausted and frustrated with ourselves and each other.

Then we started to play, brought in tantra, regular sacred sexuality date nights and our own couples coach.

The safety, trust, love and connection we have reclaimed is now better than it ever has been and we are modelling that for our kids.

You don’t need to continue to feel unhappy with your relationship…you can get back the spark you remember. Stop settling for the “roommate” relationship that you’ve been told “it’s the way relationships go”…coz it can be different. 

Couples Coaching can help!

If you and your partner are ready to “Get Your Sexy Back” let’s connect!

Hop on a free Couples Clarity call with me, get all your questions answered, see if we are aligned while experiencing what it would look like to work together.

Absolutely, no pressure…I don’t work that way…this call is really to see what has been working in your relationship, what hasn’t, and see what you both want, while getting all of your questions answered.


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This is for straight, bi, queer and non-binary humans. Same sex relationships are welcome.

My coaching meets you {and your partner} where you are at. There is no judgement as to where you are at in your journey.

I incorporate many clarity tools, communication tools, intimacy, sacred sexuality {aka tantra} and energy practices that allow you to build a healthy and strong partnership over and over again…now and beyond.

And it will be as discreet and private as you desire. I always work with my clients to find what feels good to their body and nervous system, we will go as slow as the slowest part of you feels safe to do so.

If you don’t want to discuss something, we don’t.

Note: there is never nudity on camera or with me.

Not sure if you’d like private coaching or couples coaching?

No problem! Hop on a free Clarity Call with me and let’s talk.

I can also tailor your program to include more private coaching WITH couples coaching that runs together at the same time as part of your couples coaching package.

Or all couples sessions…it’s up to you.

Hi! I’m Kim!

I am a Trauma Informed, Somatic (body-based) Empowerment & Sexuality Coach, as well as a Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, Female Sexuality Coach, Tantric Sex Coach and founder of Get Your Sexy Back.

I specialize in empowerment, confidence, creating trust and safety in our bodies and in our minds, self-love, pleasure, sensuality, intimacy with self and in relationships, as well as relationship transformation for couples, jade egg, tantra and sacred sexuality.

I teach singles and couples how to RECONNECT to their body, ACTIVATE their turn-on, HEAL heartbreak & shame at a body-based level, RECLAIM the places they’ve been disempowered, so they can come back into their body and step into their UNAPOLOGETIC POWER through sacred sexuality.

In their relationships, in their businesses, in their body and in their lives.

I am an incredible mama to 3 empowered adult/teens, 21, 18, 16, dog mom to 2 and I have been married to my amazing husband of 22 years.

I am passionate about leading a life based on PLEASURE, FLOW, EASE and tapping into the divine feminine within my body, as my power source.

My VITA™ Sex, Love & Relationship Certification with Layla Martin was an intense 650+ hour {honestly, it was well over a 1200 hours now…I’ve lost count} of in-depth incredible work. I am also a graduate of the School of Womanly Arts, as well as a Certified Coach Practitioner through the Certified Coaches Federation.

Today, I combine these skills and trainings to help singles and couples breakthrough what is holding them back, to become the humans they want to be and create the relationships & lives they desire.

I also lean on my knowledge and ability as an Human Design, Emotion Code, Reiki and Vibrational Raindrop Practitioner to help my clients explore what is going on for them and break through blocks & limiting beliefs.

I’m here to show you how to reclaim, reconnect and remember who you are at the deepest of levels, so you can show up as your full authentic powerful self, in and out of your relationships!

If you’d like to read my full bio and story you can here.

What I Promise You

I am an advocate for your body’s wisdom and giving it a space to heal and to rewire the pleasure pathways while building deep trust and safety within yourself and within your body.

I will hold you in a super supportive space for you to go deep, heal trauma, heartbreak, unworthiness, release shame and conditioning that gets in your way, keeping you from all of your desires and the life you have dreamed of.

I believe that once your body feels safe, you will experience REAL pleasure, joy, trust, connection, intimacy and turn-on.

I will hold you accountable so you may RECLAIM you, your love and build a stronger foundation while you RECONNECT to your body, to each other and to your sensuality so you REMEMBER who you both are individually, turn-on, awaken your passion and rediscover who you are as a couple.


  • 6 month Private Coaching Container where you reclaim your love and build a stronger foundation, reconnect to your body, to each other and to yoursleves so you remember who you both are individually, turn-on, awaken your passion and rediscover who you are as a couple.
  • 75-90 minute coaching sessions 4 x a month. My couples coaching is unique in that you receice 2 calls together as a couple and 1 call each separate to continue your own journey, along with your relationship journey. My weekly calls are where you bring your questions and challenges you have, or just show up and let me guide you towards your desires.
  • Unlimited messaging support in-between sessions. This is where the real work happens. You’ll try a new thing, start a convo with your partner or something will activate your body and shit will hit the fan…I’ll be ready to help you both process and integrate. Change only happens in action, while we are living it…not only on our calls. You’ll both also be kicking ass and needing a place to celebrate and I can’t wait for those messages too!
  • Me supporting and partnering with you both, taking a stand for your individual desires and your desires as a couple.  I’ll help you take places in your life where things could be better or you desire something else and I’ll teach you the tools it takes to see deep lasting change.
  • With Private Couples Coaching you both have my full attention to uncover and release what is in your way and holding you back. Private Couples Coaching is where we can fine tune and go way deeper than we can in group programs collapsing your timeline exponentially.
  • I offer A LOT of accountability and yet I know first-hand how challenging it can feel when we are stuck in the muck. Most of the time we are too close and too caught up in what is going on in our day-to-day. My job is to balance both while helping you both create safety in your nervous systems at the same time.
  • Made for you practices, communication, intimacy and embodiment tools, plus Intuitive Playtime {aka fun homework} to allow you to get to where you want to go faster! You also receive the recordings of the practices and meditations we do, so you can continue to deepen your practice in between sessions.
  • 100% judgement free container filled with safety & love. I’ve done the work…I continue to daily…I know and I have a ton of experience to hold you through it all.


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Your Investment

$1888/month for 6 months or $10,800 one time payment


Extended Payment Plan of $1150/month for 10 months

How do we get started??



I work with many single women and men who are struggling in their marriage and in their life and their partners are not always on board with them up-levelling themselves or their relationship for one reason or another.

If this is the case, I can tailor your program to include private coaching plus couples coaching when/if your partner decides to come along for the ride.

Why? Because honestly, it starts with you.

Once you say YES and start to shift taking your power back, healing yourself and turning ON…I see 9/10 times your partner naturally shifts with you.

If you are feeling alone, confused, frustrated or isolated in your body, in your partnership, you can still do the work on you.

You can be in your power AND in your relationship.

You don’t need to trudge along disempowered.

And if you do decide to not stay in your relationship…wouldn’t you prefer to be fully supported while you do?

I’ve got you. Allow yourself to be supported.

Hop on a call with me and let’s see what type of coaching will most support you.


If you have tried talk therapy in the past and have not gotten anywhere close to where you’d like to be, coaching may be what you are looking for.

I personally tried so much talk therapy {private and couples} in my life and nothing got me anywhere close to where coaching and embodiment work has gotten me.

Coaching is right for you if you are ready to embody change and you are willing to do the work.  By work I mean you are ready to explore your thoughts, beliefs and conditioning. You are ready to go deep, to be witnessed and to heal.

When we start to do our healing work using somatic {body based} tools and practices I find that…

One: we get to the root of what is holding us back so much faster. 

And Two: we get to heal and release what we’ve been carrying in a super gentle nourishing way, giving us real embodied lasting results.

Plus, I provide many different tools and practices that are easy to implement in your regular day-to-day lives, so you are able to create the change in your relationship that you desire.


° You are not open to hearing where you are holding yourself back

° You are looking for the next best thing, but you probably won’t follow through

° You love the patriarchal culture, telling you what a “good girl”, “good boy” and “good human” should do

° You don’t want to make yourself or your relationship a priority

° You are addicted to the adrenaline rush of “work, work, work” and “go, go, go” and you want to keep doing it that way


Each session we will start with what is going on, what’s working, what’s not, exploring all of that and getting curious about what you each need to achieve your desires.

Then we will go into whatever will help you remove the obstacles that are holding you back.

My coaching is made up of powerful somatic tools to clear any unconscious limiting beliefs around your body, your sensuality, while creating safety in your body and activating your TURN-ON.

We will also do deep work around any childhood wounding, past heartbreaks and conditioning so you can reconnect to who you are, build deep intimacy, trust and self-love with yourself, heal your body, your mind and your soul…and transform your life, so you can use it all as your superpower.

I will add in a meditation, a practice, breathwork, or a tool to build connection to your body and each other, while releasing powerful blocks of judgement, guilt, shame and limiting beliefs.

Along with nourishing embodiment practices to cut through the “story”, decrease your stress levels, balance your hormones, ignite your turn-on, embrace your feminine power and enhance your overall turn-on!

We can also explore increasing communication, connection and intimacy, emotional empowerment, exploring unconscious networks, gaining clarity around situations, creating safety & boundaries, integrating and healing, rewriting your sexual story, releasing pain or numbness, exploring and edge, even holistic sexuality tools on your own and as a couple.

It’s up to what you want to work on…always a collaboration.

Basically taking your power back, and taking care of both of your nervous systems, with lots of love, compassion and approval. 

There will be a combo of talk, exercises, tools and pleasure practices on our calls, but really it depends what you need that given week.

My weekly calls are where you’ll bring questions or challenges you have, or just show up and let me guide you towards your desires.


Sacred Sexuality is a practice that is part of the ancient spiritual path known as tantra.

Sacred Sexuality can be practiced solo or as a couple and it is a beautiful way to connect with your body, your sexuality and your pleasure, allowing you to access deeper levels of your feelings, sensations, and energies and ultimately go beyond WHO YOU ARE.

The Tantric path is acknowledging the depth of who you are and integrating yourself, so you are in greater alignment and remember who you REALLY are.

However, you aren’t focused on “fixing” yourself because there isn’t anything wrong with you.

Instead, you are focused on loving and accepting all parts of yourself and going deeper, seeing what is underneath, following your pleasure and allowing it all to bring things naturally into alignment.

The practices are incredible at helping release shame, trauma, and blockages around your body, your pleasure, being your authentic self, asking for what you want, your “enoughness” and your too muchness…and so much more.

These practices restore the transformative power of your erotic energy, your unapologetic energy and lead you to up-level how you feel pleasure, turn-on, joy and passion more intensely within your body.

This is for couples and singles who want holistic deeper sensual and energy practices to take them on an exquisite erotic sensual adventure where sensuality also becomes a door to the divine, creating a more intimate experience of the present moment.

My coaching is aligned with applying classical Tantric teachings and uses Neo-Tantric practices to really meet my clients where they are at and help them with their modern issues and desires around love, relationships, body, intimacy, empowerment and sensuality on the whole.

All of my coaching includes Sacred Sexuality Practices along with Somatic (body-based) coaching…it really is an incredible holistic practice that everyone can benefit from.


Great Question! I get this all the time…NO.

My clients are always fully clothed with me on calls. There is no explicit nudity.

I also include recorded audio files of your practices that I guide you through, so you may continue to deepen your practice with yourself in-between sessions and beyond in the comfort of your own home.


You might want to!!!

But, NO. I will NOT make you do anything that does not feel aligned with your body.

However, I will hold you and witness you in your resistance to something you want to explore, to be more comfortable with.

And I will invite you to get curious about where you are stuck.

Give yourself permission to reclaim your sexuality, your pleasure and be supported in doing so.


My coaching is unique in that I support and partner with you, taking a stand for your desires individually and as a couple even when you can’t.

I am an advocate for your body’s wisdom and giving it a space to heal and rewire the pleasure pathways and build deep trust within yourself and your body.

I will hold you in super supportive space for you to go deep, heal trauma, heartbreak, unworthiness and conditioning that gets in your way.

I have experienced sexual trauma and abuse myself, so I know what it is like to do the deep work around trauma and our bodies.  I believe that once your body feels safe, you will experience REAL pleasure, joy, trust, intimacy and turn-on in all areas of your life.

I have also been married for over 21 years and bring tons of relationship experience with me. I have experienced firsthand the in’s and out’s of navigating a long lasting relationship.

And, that is why I offer complimentary consult calls so you may gain clarity on your desires, see if we are aligned while you experience what is like to work with me.

Absolutely no pressure…I don’t work that way…this call is really to see what is most aligned for all of us.


It is $1888/month for a 6 month coaching term or an Extended payment Plan of $1150/month for 10 months.

You can also save a little if you’d like to pay in full at $10,800.

Not sure if you’d like private coaching or couples coaching?

No problem…I can also tailor your program to include private coaching WITH couples coaching that runs together at the same time as part of your couples coaching package.

Hop on a call with me and let’s see what type of coaching will most support you.


Book a free call to connect with me and let’s talk!

Absolutely zero pressure, I am not about that…I want you to be a full fucking yes and nothing less.

But it always starts with a free call to gain clarity on your desires, see if we are aligned and make sure it all feels great to you.

Schedule a free consult to talk, ask all your questions and find out if we are a good fit to work together.