Have you forgotten the last time you and your partner had intimate, “replay over and over in your head for days on end fun”?
Do you keep missing each other and feel like the intimacy and connection you once had is dwindling by the day?
Do you not feel fully seen or understood and want to rekindle the love and connection between you?
Has your relationship gotten repetitive and a tad boring?
Are you in a new(er) relationship, and want to up-level what you already have and learn how to have an epic relationship and avoid the patterns you’ve fallen into in the past?
Would you like some clarity and support on what’s next, with real life communication tools and intimacy practices that you can implement easily into your lives?
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My Signature Sexy-Back approach is designed to reconnect you to your body and to each other through sacred sexuality, {aka tantra} while creating deep intimacy, allowing you both to heal and cultivating real communication, so you awaken your passion, rediscover who you are as a couple, while honouring each other’s desires.
You want to feel powerful and fierce in all areas of your life, especially in your relationship…but right now you’re feeling stuck in a slump.
You want to wake up in the morning with a big smile on your face, ready to start your day, replaying over and over the epic intimacy and connection you had last night while you head off to work.
Then, when it’s time for a break, turn your phone over and see a saucy text from your partner that heats you up in all the right places…turning you on and giving you the confidence to sext them back till you get home tonight for round two.
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Do you and your partner need a little reset?
Have you fallen into a rut and want to spice things up again?
So many couples have miscommunication IN and OUT of the bedroom…and zero judgement if this is you. {it was me and my husband for many years too}
You are not alone.
The things everyone “tells you to do”…
😐 Just plan more date nights
😐 Make time for each other
😐 Just have sex…you’ll get “in the mood”
😐 don’t worry, you’ll figure it out
😐 Get some sexy lingerie
😐 Never go to bed angry with each other
😐 You will settle in with time…
These typically DON’T work.
Or they do, but not for very long.
Because they don’t get to the bottom of what is going on. Nor do they create a strong foundation for your relationship to grow on.
And to be honest, true intimacy, communication and connection hasn’t been modelled or taught for many of us in a way that feels good, cultivates safety and trust in our bodies and in our relationships.
And then there is sex.
And sex involves an even deeper understanding of ourselves, each other, our desires and our pleasure, with even more safety and present connection.
It’s time to have open conversations, while adding powerful tools and practices to create fun, loving, playful, connected, intimate experiences that feel great and allow you to feel fully safe, seen, loved and understood.
This is MUCH easier when you understand what you each need. When you can see how your inner children “are running the show”. When you cultivate safety in your body, in how you feel and in your relationship.
Shame, conditioning and fear of vulnerability quickly gets in the way of deep intimate experiences. Even if we don’t think they are, our unconscious beliefs continue to show up in our day-to-day, and that includes in our relationships.
Talk about a huge turn-off…in and out of the bedroom.
This isn’t something we can push or force through.
It is time to go deeper, to come back together and learn how to connect and communicate in ways that feel good to your body.
It is actually IN relationship that some of our deepest needs and wounds can be healed.
It is time to stop settling, being okay with a “roommate” relationship, and simply going through the motions.
Instead, learn how to create deep intimacy, unleash your sexual confidence, open the lines of communication where you both feel seen and supported, while unlocking profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, intimacy and nervous system regulation with yourself – and in your relationships!
It is time for the sexy reset and up-level that you and your partner so badly crave, so you can get out of the rut and live the life you love and have been dreaming of!
What if I told you that you could create deeper intimacy, open the lines of communication and experience INCREDIBLE pleasure with potent passion with your partner no matter how long it’s been?
No matter what has come in-between the two of you?
A relationship that is EVEN better than it’s ever been?
Well, you absolutely can!
This is for couples who…
Want to reconnect to their body, to their sexuality, to their pleasure and to each other!
Want to learn how to ask for what you want in an embodied way, that gets you out of your head and feels good to you both!
Find that one or both, shutdown when conflict arises and want to learn new way to heal and come together.
Have lost their spark and want to feel connected, confident and SEXY again!
Struggle to communicate and share without arguing, what they want from the relationship and from each other.
Are not feeling very seen or understood and desire to have their needs met in a loving, compassionate way.
Have been drifting apart, feeling resentment or frustration and desire to feel in tune again.
Also LOVE their relationship but want it to be EVEN better, deeper, more nourishing, with more presence.
My private coaching for couples is for you.
If you desire to up-level your already amazing relationship, with Tantra and Sacred Sexuality, my private coaching for couples is ALSO for you.
There is no such thing as a relationship “being too far gone”.
There is no such thing as “being as good as it gets”.
And there is no such thing as “starting too soon”.
I work with couples in their 20th year of relationship. I work couples who have just moved in together, as well as couples who are still dating and living in separate locations.
In all styles of relationships and all genders.
What works for one relationship, won’t always work for another.
That’s why my coaching includes custom tailored sessions and support for your unique relationship.
Book a free Couples Clarity Call with me here to learn more
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RECLAIM your love and cultivate a stronger foundation for your relationship, where you both feel supported and seen and you both receive the intimacy and connection you desire.
RECONNECT to your body, to your sexuality, to your pleasure and to your partner. Learn how to ask for what you want in an embodied way that creates space for all of you and all of your partner.
REMEMBER who you are both are individually, turn-on, awaken your passion and rediscover who you are as a couple, without conditioning holding your back, while honouring each other’s desires.
This is for new couples and this is for seasoned couples.
It’s never too early to learn ways to have a healthy relationship with powerful communication and incredible holistic sexuality tools.
This is for couples who are madly in love and for couples who aren’t sure if it’s going to last.
It is all welcome.
Allow YOU and YOUR relationship to be supported.
“Working with Kim was eye opening and a relationship transforming experience.
Spending just one weekend with her, immediately improved our communication, our physical and our emotional intimacy.
If you are thinking of hiring her, DO IT NOW.”
Amanda Brown ~ Certified Clinical Trauma & Self-Mastery Coach for Women
We all bring our past conditioning, wounds and heartbreak with us into our relationships.
In the beginning we can usually bypass most of it…flying high on new love. But as our relationship grows and evolves, a lot of these wounds show up over and over again. Creating pain, distance and frustration.
And that is okay.
Because it is IN our relationships that we can truly heal and integrate our heartbreak and needs that were never met.
It is IN relationship where we can learn how to fully be seen, open up to true intimacy and allow ourselves to be truly held.
I will show you how to rewrite your story, release shame, conditioning and blocks that are holding you back, reconnect on a more profound level, create the deeper intimacy you desire, all while cultivating an epic sexual relationship!
I meet you and your partner wherever you are at.
If you want to up-level your already passionate relationship or if you are realizing that things have been feeling little a more distant than you’d like recently…it is all welcome.
My couples coaching is unique in that it includes coaching sessions on the unit as a couple, but also has the option to include individual private support for both parties involved.
You can see the private coaching pages on this website for men and for women for more info on what the solo private support can include.
And of course, your sessions are tailored to you and your relationship.
So if you need more tantra (aka holistic sexuality) we do more tantra…or if you need more communication, safety or inner child healing we work on that.
Your sessions are always tailored to what you need in that given moment with your long term desires as a couple in mind.
That’s the beauty of private coaching.
If you and your partner desire a little more “us” time. If you feel like keep missing each other and feel like the intimacy and connection is not happening as often as you like.
If it is it putting a strain on your relationship…
I want you to know, that you are not alone.
You don’t need to continue to feel unhappy with your relationship…you can get back the spark you remember. Stop settling for the “roommate” relationship that you’ve been told “it’s the way relationships go”…because it can be different.
Couples Coaching can help!
If you and your partner are ready to “Get Your Sexy Back” let’s connect!
Hop on a free Couples Clarity call with me, get all your questions answered, and see if we are aligned while experiencing what it would look like to work together.
Absolutely, no pressure…I don’t work that way…this call is really to see what has been working in your relationship, and what hasn’t, and see what you both want, while getting all of your questions answered.
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This is for straight, bi, queer and non-binary humans. Same sex relationships are welcome.
My coaching meets you {and your partner} where you are at. There is no judgement as to where you are at in your journey.
I incorporate many clarity tools, communication tools, intimacy, holistic and sacred sexuality {aka tantra} and energy practices that allow you to build a healthy and strong partnership over and over again…now and beyond.
And it will be as discreet and private as you desire. I always work with my clients to find what feels good to their body and nervous system, we will go as slow as the slowest part of you feels safe to do so.
If you don’t want to discuss something, we don’t.
Note: there is never nudity on camera or with me.
Not sure if you’d like private coaching or couples coaching?
No problem! Hop on a free Clarity Call with me and let’s talk.
I will tailor your program to meet you and your partners needs. Your package can include private coaching WITH couples coaching that runs together at the same time as part of your couples coaching package.
Or all couples sessions…it’s up to you.
Hi, I’m Kim!
I’m a certified trauma-informed, Sex, Love, Relationship & Tantra Teacher, Speaker and Coach for singles and couples. As well as a Bestselling Author, a graduate of Layla Martin’s Institute of Integrated Tantric Sexuality, and founder of Get Your Sexy Back.
I specialize in Tantra, Sexuality and Relationship Transformation, giving you the tools to unleash your innate confidence and unlock profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, and intimacy with yourself – and in your relationships!
I use a multifaceted approach in all my programs and private coaching incorporating nervous system regulation, with sacred sexuality, pleasure and personal empowerment.
My work combines elements inspired by Classical & Neo-Tantra, Taoism, Emotional Healing, Somatic Experiencing, Breathwork, Imago Relationship Therapy, Gestalt Therapy, Energetic Guided Meditation, Reiki, Human Design and more.
Today I combine all these skills and training plus 26+ years of entrepreneurship and 13+ years of coaching experience to help singles and couples explore and break through what is holding them back from experiencing the lives they desire.
By creating deep trust and safety in your body and mind, I’ll show you how to RECONNECT to your body, ACTIVATE your turn-on, HEAL heartbreak & shame, RECLAIM your natural sensual self so that you can fully step into your UNAPOLOGETIC POWER!
COUPLES COACHING JOURNEY
- 4-month Private Coaching Container where you reclaim your passion while building a stronger foundation. You will also learn how to reconnect to your body, to each other and with yourself, so you remember who you are individually and rediscover who you are as a couple.
- 75 minute coaching sessions 2 or 3 times a month. My couples coaching is unique in that you have the option to receive 2 calls together as a couple and 1 call each separately to continue your own journey, along with your relationship journey. My weekly calls are where you bring your questions and challenges you have, or just show up and let me guide you toward your desires.
- Unlimited messaging support in-between sessions. This is where the real work happens. You’ll try a new thing, start a convo with your partner or something will activate your body and shit will hit the fan…I’ll be ready to help you both process and integrate. Change only happens in action, while we are living it…not only on our calls. You’ll both also be kicking ass and needing a place to celebrate and I can’t wait for those messages too!
- Me supporting and partnering with you both, taking a stand for your individual desires and your desires as a couple. I’ll help you take places in your life where things could be better or you desire something else and I’ll teach you the tools it takes to see deep lasting change.
- With Private Couples Coaching you both have my full attention to uncover and release what is in your way and holding you back. Private Couples Coaching is where we can fine tune and go way deeper than we can in group programs collapsing your timeline exponentially.
- I offer A LOT of accountability and yet I know first-hand how challenging it can feel when we are stuck in the muck. Most of the time we are too close and too caught up in what is going on in our day-to-day. My job is to balance both while helping you both create safety in your nervous systems at the same time.
- Made for you practices, communication, intimacy and embodiment tools, plus Intuitive Playtime {aka fun homework} to allow you to get to where you want to go faster! You also receive the recordings of the practices and meditations we do, so you can continue to deepen your practice in between sessions.
- 100% judgement-free container filled with safety & love. I’ve done the work…I continue to daily…I know and I have a ton of experience to hold you through it all.
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Your Investment
3 calls/month
$2800 or $800/mo x 4 months
2 calls/month
$2000 or $600/mo x 4 months
Extended Payment Plans are available
What is the next step??
Book your free Couples Clarity Call and let’s talk!
FAQ’s:
WHAT IF MY PARTNER ISN’T ON BOARD?
I work with many single women and men who are struggling in their marriage and in their life and their partners are not always on board with them up-levelling themselves or their relationship for one reason or another.
If this is the case, I can tailor your program to include private coaching plus couples coaching when/if your partner decides to come along for the ride.
Why? Because honestly, it starts with you.
Once you say YES and start to shift taking your power back, healing yourself and turning ON…I see 9/10 times your partner naturally shifts with you.
If you are feeling alone, confused, frustrated or isolated in your body, in your partnership, you can still do the work on you.
You can be in your power AND in your relationship.
You don’t need to trudge along disempowered.
And if you do decide to not stay in your relationship…wouldn’t you prefer to be fully supported while you do?
I’ve got you. Allow yourself to be supported.
Hop on a call with me and let’s see what type of coaching will most support you.
HOW DO I KNOW IF COACHING IS FOR US?
If you have tried talk therapy in the past and have not gotten anywhere close to where you’d like to be, coaching may be what you are looking for.
I personally tried so much talk therapy {private and couples} in my life and nothing got me anywhere close to where coaching and embodiment work has gotten me.
Coaching is right for you if you are ready to embody change and you are willing to do the work. By work I mean you are ready to explore your thoughts, beliefs and conditioning. You are ready to go deep, to be witnessed and to heal.
When we start to do our healing work using somatic {body based} tools and practices I find that…
One: we get to the root of what is holding us back so much faster.
And Two: we get to heal and release what we’ve been carrying in a super gentle nourishing way, giving us real embodied lasting results.
Plus, I provide many different tools and practices that are easy to implement in your regular day-to-day lives, so you are able to create the change in your relationship that you desire.
WHAT HAPPENS IN A SESSION?
Each session we will start with what is going on, what’s working, what’s not, exploring all of that and getting curious about what you each need to achieve your desires.
Then we will go into whatever will help you remove the obstacles that are holding you back.
My coaching is made up of powerful somatic tools to clear any unconscious limiting beliefs around your body, your sensuality, while creating safety in your body and activating your TURN-ON.
We will also do deep work around any childhood wounding, past heartbreaks and conditioning so you can reconnect to who you are, build deep intimacy, trust and self-love with yourself, heal your body, your mind and your soul…and transform your life, so you can use it all as your superpower.
I will add in a meditation, a practice, breathwork, or a tool to build connection to your body and each other, while releasing powerful blocks of judgement, guilt, shame and limiting beliefs.
Along with nourishing embodiment practices to cut through the “story”, decrease your stress levels, balance your hormones, ignite your turn-on, embrace your feminine power and enhance your overall turn-on!
We can also explore increasing communication, connection and intimacy, emotional empowerment, exploring unconscious networks, gaining clarity around situations, creating safety & boundaries, integrating and healing, rewriting your sexual story, releasing pain or numbness, exploring and edge, even holistic sexuality tools on your own and as a couple.
It’s up to what you want to work on…always a collaboration.
Basically taking your power back, and taking care of both of your nervous systems, with lots of love, compassion and approval.
There will be a combo of talk, exercises, tools and pleasure practices on our calls, but really it depends what you need that given week.
My weekly calls are where you’ll bring questions or challenges you have, or just show up and let me guide you towards your desires.
WHAT IS SACRED SEXUALITY & SACRED PLEASURE?
Sacred Pleasure is part of Sacred Sexuality. It is a practice that is part of the ancient spiritual path known as tantra mixed with pleasure and embodiment.
Sacred Pleasure and Sacred Sexuality can be practiced solo or as a couple and it is a beautiful way to connect with your body, your sensuality and your pleasure, allowing you to access deeper levels of your feelings, sensations, and energies and ultimately go beyond WHO YOU ARE.
The Tantric path is acknowledging the depth of who you are and integrating yourself, so you are in greater alignment and remember who you REALLY are.
However, you aren’t focused on “fixing” yourself because there isn’t anything wrong with you.
Instead, we focus on:
🌹 Bringing in compassion and approval for everything you do and feel in the present and in the past
🌹 Loving and accepting all parts of yourself…even the parts you dislike or the parts that have been shamed, dismissed, or discouraged
🌹 Going deeper into understanding who you are and what you truly believe and feel
🌹 Reconnecting to your body, cultivating safety and trust along with everything else I mentioned above, so you are able to release deep shame and conditioning
🌹 Following your pleasure, using it to guide you AND to rewire the neuro pathways between your body and your brain
🌹 Allowing it all to come together to bring your body naturally into alignment.
The practices are incredible at helping release shame, trauma, and blockages around your body, your pleasure, being your authentic self, asking for what you want, your “enoughness” and your too muchness…and so much more.
These practices restore the transformative power of your sacred energy, your unapologetic energy and lead you to up-level how you feel pleasure, turn-on, joy and passion more intensely within your body.
Sacred Sexuality is for couples and singles who want holistic deeper sensual, embodied and energy practices to take them on an exquisite sacred sensual adventure where sensuality also becomes a door to the divine, creating a more intimate experience of the present moment.
My work combines elements inspired by Classial Tantra & Neo-Tantra, Taoism, Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS), Body-Mind Mapping, Dynamic Breathwork, Imago Relationship Therapy, Gestalt Therapy and Energetic Guided Meditation.
My coaching meets my clients where they are at and help them with their modern issues and desires around love, relationships, body, intimacy, confidence, connection, empowerment and sexuality on the whole.
ARE WE NAKED ON SESSION CALLS?
Great Question! I get this all the time…NO.
My clients are always fully clothed with me on calls. There is no explicit nudity.
I also include recorded audio files of your practices that I guide you through, so you may continue to deepen your practice with yourself in-between sessions and beyond in the comfort of your own home.
WILL YOU MAKE US DO HOMEWORK EVERY DAY?
You might want to!!!
But, NO. I will NOT make you do anything that does not feel aligned with your body.
However, I will hold you and witness you in your resistance to something you want to explore, to be more comfortable with.
And I will invite you to get curious about where you are stuck.
Give yourself permission to reclaim your sexuality, your pleasure and be supported in doing so.
HOW DO I KNOW IF YOU’RE THE COACH FOR MY PARTNER AND I?
My coaching is unique in that I support and partner with you, taking a stand for your desires individually and as a couple even when you can’t.
I am an advocate for your body’s wisdom and giving it a space to heal and rewire the pleasure pathways and build deep trust within yourself and your body.
I will hold you in super supportive space for you to go deep, heal trauma, heartbreak, unworthiness and conditioning that gets in your way.
I have experienced sexual trauma and abuse myself, so I know what it is like to do the deep work around trauma and our bodies. I believe that once your body feels safe, you will experience REAL pleasure, joy, trust, intimacy and turn-on in all areas of your life.
I have also been married for over 21 years and bring tons of relationship experience with me. I have experienced firsthand the in’s and out’s of navigating a long lasting relationship.
And, that is why I offer complimentary consult calls so you may gain clarity on your desires, see if we are aligned while you experience what is like to work with me.
Absolutely no pressure…I don’t work that way…this call is really to see what is most aligned for all of us.
WHAT DO I DO NEXT?
Book a free call to connect with me and let’s talk!
Absolutely zero pressure, I am not about that…I want you to be a full fucking yes and nothing less.
But it always starts with a free call to gain clarity on your desires, see if we are aligned and make sure it all feels great to you.
Schedule a free consult to talk, ask all your questions and find out if we are a good fit to work together.
